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At this point it is time for him to slack off and forget about romance for a while. He should just enjoy her company and share social activities with her. They’re going to have a child together. Sensual pursuits are fun. As he turns down the power she relaxes and they both turn to a life of total hedonism and enjoyment. She enjoys his company and needs his energy but only a little at a time.

After a while she craves larger and larger doses of his raw energy. She learns how to deal with it more effectively. It begins to give her power and energy and she starts to return some of it back to him in a new form. Up until this point the energy has only been flowing from him to her.

The Tantric cycle involves the male channeling his energy to her so that she can mix it with her own and create something new that both of them need. This is something that only she can do. In Tantra the child she carries is an astral child that will one day become a new astral body for him after she creates her own. There is the physical cycle of physical pregnancy and the astral cycle of astral pregnancy. One is the path of the serpent and the other is the path of the dove.

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Sexual charisma and magnetism is something that all of us would like to have more of. No matter how much we have is not enough. We want to be sexually attractive to the opposite sex in general and specifically to our partner.

Sexual energy and sexual magnetism are developed through orgasm. More correctly they are developed through the pleasurable waves that flood the body prior to orgasm. This energy floods the body and escapes into the astral to create an astral body out of this sexual energy.

Like each type of astral energy generated by the physical body, sexual energy is cumulative in nature. The creation of an astral body and development of sexual magnetism requires many orgasms or near orgasms. For the male this involves prolonged sexual tension without orgasm as long as possible. For the female this involves riding the peak of the orgasm and making it last as long as possible. These are both tantric practices for the creation and development of the soul.

Those serious about developing sexual magnetism will generate this energy on a daily basis over long periods of time. Often several years go by before this astral body is fully formed and functional. This is a natural cycle that exists within love relationships in which our souls grow through the experience of sharing loving energies.

There are dangers involved in generating massive amounts of sexual energy. The most important of them is that it will stir up deeply buried and repressed emotional baggage as it circulates throughout the physical body. This will cause emotional releases or outbursts. In more serious cases it may cause psychotic episodes if the repressed emotions are released and take over the body without conscious control.

I personally experienced an episode where I relived every memory of being physically punished as a child. This was followed by two hours of uncontrollable weeping as the repressed energy was released. It was not a pleasant experience but it was a healthy one!

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I don’t know, if its love, or hate,
That I feel for you,
I only know that it burns, hurts and blazes,
What I feel for you.
I don’t know, if its a blessing or a curse,
That you give me,
I only know, that you make my life,
Difficult and rich.

Mia Holm 1900
translation by Joe Bandel

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He realizes that she is holding back and having difficulties with the energy that he is trying to share. He turns his vast creative energies exclusively toward the development of energies which she can work with. Through trial and error he grows to understand the nature of the energies that he is sending to her. He perfects and refines each type of energy until he can send each type of energy to her at will. At some point the physical energies of sex trap them both and she becomes pregnant. This is the ultimate grounding of his sexual energies.

She is totally overwhelmed by the varieties and the force of the energies which he is sending. This is a totally new experience for her and she becomes afraid of losing herself in this wild vortex of raw sensual, emotional, and spiritual energies. Even though she tries to be careful she finds herself being dragged deeper and deeper into the vortex of his wild energies and she can’t escape. She is losing control. He is beginning to dominate her. That’s when she becomes pregnant.

In tantra the female becomes astrally pregnant and gives birth to an astral child which then becomes his permanently activated astral body. This happens after he has given her enough of his energies to create a new astral body for herself. The creation and development of the soul require this sharing of mutual energies and is the secret meaning of “being born again!”. The types of energies shared determine the type of astral body created. The true secret of tantra is not in having physical sex, but in having non-physical sex or the sharing of non physical sexual energies.

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I’m sure we would all like to acquire the special magnetic charm and appeal commonly known as charisma. The good news is that this is strictly a mechanical process. To understand the process we first have to understand the connection between the physical body and the nonphysical body, soul or astral body. The physical body is made up of atoms and molecules and is capacitive in nature just like a battery.

By capacitive I mean it has the ability to generate energy, store energy, and discharge energy in a similar manner to the capacitors used in electronic circuitry. I will be using examples from basic electrical theory to explain some important but subjective areas.

Please bear with me and keep an open mind. You might even consider studying some basic electrical theory. The nonphysical body or soul is inductive in nature and is formed of magnetic fields and flux lines. Occultists call this the astral body or aura. It has the ability to repel or attract. Its main function is to be a simple conductor of energy.

The electrical type of energy we are most familiar with is nerve energy. Our astral bodies operate in a manner similar to electrical coils found in electronic circuitry. It is the development of the astral body that gives a person charisma. There are progressive ways of developing all of the astral bodies and in the process we develop our special magnetic charm and appeal to others in specific ways. Our astral body is also the body we have in our dreams. As we develop the power of these astral bodies our dreams will reflect our personal growth. That is why it is very important to monitor our dreams if we are serious about personal development. We need to learn the language of our dreams so we can understand what they are telling us.

When we are progressing in a proper way our dreams will become more powerful and more resourceful. Instead of having dreams where we are helpless and powerless, we will have dreams of successfully dealing with adverse situations. Our goal is to gradually gain conscious control of our dream life, to have lucid dreams.

The dreamworld is also known as the astral world. There are seven main types of energy that form astral bodies and astral worlds. They are abstract spiritual, concrete spiritual, abstract mental, concrete mental, upper emotional, lower emotional and etheric energies.

The human body produces many more than seven different energies but they all fall into seven categories also known as chakra energies which are centered at the pineal gland, pituitary gland, thyroid gland, heart, solar plexus, spleen, ovaries or testes and perenium or tailbone.

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