Males and females are true opposites of each other, and their individual paths of soul development will be different as well. These differences begin at the biological level and continue to the highest regions of the soul. Yet the very nature of the Tantric path is to develop the male and female aspects within each individual soul.
These two opposite paths of soul development both appear reasonable and logical and we are confronted with paradox. Both views extend from the lowest levels of awareness to the highest levels of spirituality. Both are natural opposites of the other. I will go so far as to claim that while males are intensely drawn toward sensual experiences they will ultimately default to a spiritual or intellectual view of life. They will be drawn to the female path and experience it briefly, but they cannot sustain contact with it.
In the same way females will be intensely drawn to a spiritual and intellectual view of life but default to sensual and biological experiences. They will be drawn to the male path and experience it briefly, but cannot sustain contact with it. They will lose interest in the constant head tripping of the male.
Gradually each person balances both the male and female aspects of their own soul and becomes able to walk both paths comfortably.
We form relationships with the opposite sex to help us grow as individuals and as love partners. The dynamic energy exchange between these two paths propel us to become whole and complete. The male and female agree to work together as a team to accomplish their desired goals. Since they are meeting primarily on the mental and heart planes it is vital they have as many interests in common as possible. These common interests will help to bridge the vast gap that will face them later and strengthen their sense of common purpose. They are drawn together through a magnetic attraction called love. Romantic love relationships are sacred. Their combined energy is truly magical.
The man should have a very idealistic and spiritual nature. He will be using his male energy as a catalyst to lift her spiritual nature to those spiritual heights where she can contact the divine goddess within.
When this contact is made she becomes the goddess and by transforming his generated energy causes it to manifest objectively as healing energy or else she directs it for stated magical purposes. He has the surplus energy that she needs to achieve her goals. Alone his energy is wild and undirected. Together they can achieve miracles. They need each other.
Using male and female energy correctly is a form of Tantric sex magic. This may or may not involve sex or orgasm. What is required is foreplay and sexual tension which is prolonged until intense sexual, emotional, and spiritual energies are generated between the two of them.
Through physical contact these energies enter into the females aura and stabilize. In essence any type of male/female interaction can generate sparks. This is the spark of sexual tension and excitement. It is the spark of love!
At first the male struggles to be both body and spirit. He strives to become one with the Christ spirit within him while still maintaining an awareness of his physical body and his physical world. He looks at her and recognizes the goddess that she is. He sees her as a divine spiritual being, places her on a pedestal and mentally kneels before her. He has expectations and standards for her that are so high only a goddess could fulfill them. He does not feel worthy of her love.
Mentally she can identify with the goddess within herself and opens to embrace his energy. This is true goddess love. She acts through instinct and recognizes the sensations his energy produces in her physical body. All options are explored. She allows this to happen. She loves herself and the entire world. She accepts his worship of her as natural. She is the goddess. His love makes her feel lovable. His purpose is to give her his love.
In this way the basic energy dynamic between males and females can be clearly seen for the first time. He is like the sunlight which shines through the glass prism and creates a rainbow of colors. She is like the glass prism which embraces the sunlight and creates the rainbow of colors. There is a great mystery here which will be unveiled later.
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