Anarchistbanjo's World

Four of Wands

Symbol- He is lost in romantic fantasies about her.

She is lost in service to others.

Meaning- seduction

As her supply of volatile spiritual energy leaves she attempts to live out her fantasy life by becoming active in altruistic activities. If he isn’t ready she will go on without him. Life is for living.

He is in love with love and thinks he is in love with her. He is obsessed with her and his romantic fantasies are more real than she is. He lives entirely in his head. He sees nothing, hears nothing, says nothing. All his energy is caught up in his obsession about her and their imagined relationship. Worldly affairs and other relationships suffer because they seem vague and unreal to him.

Male experience:

His romantic fantasies are more real than she is. In daydreams he finds joy and peace. He doesn’t care about worldly affairs or friendships with others and they suffer. He sees her loosing interest in him and all his energy goes into making her exclusively his. He feels fear and apprehension at the possibility of loosing her. He is obsessed with her.

Female experience:

She offers herself to everyone without thought of self or personal gain. All she wants is to live her fantasy. She is only compassion and feeling for others as she helps them.
She finds him hostile and threatening in a world that is chaotic. She has fear and apprehension about exposing herself to his violence and negativity. The worries and cares of the world become all too clear. She is pulled in deeper and deeper and can’t get out.