Anarchistbanjo's World

Six of Pentacles

symbol– He uses her energy to do things that he wants to
do. She gets him to do things for her. They have a child.
Meaning- exploitation

They are both generating high and low level sexual and physical energy at this point. She is able to generate an abundance of high level energy and combines it with his high level sexual energy. They encourage each other in their physical effort to achieve the things in life that are important. This combined physical energy is used to create physically the type of life that she wants for them both.

They have begun the process of creating a family together. The birth of a child brings new joys, responsibilities and sorrows. It is more than either one expected it to be.

The effect of this is that she gains control of the relationship and gets him to do things for her that she wants done. Everything must be done the way that she wants it and all that he says is “Yes dear!”

Even though she is becoming dominant at home he is still able to do the things that he wants to do when he is away from her. He is able to find time for his own interests too. In this way the relationship is a workable one in which each partner is using the other to fulfill their own physical needs.

The relationship does not meet their highest expectations and many compromises must be made but they do learn to love and respect each other in their own ways. They learn to become a family.

Male experience:

He learns to compromise with her and in general is content with the relationship. It becomes comfortable to be in. She demands things of him but he is also able to do many of the things that he wants to do. He learns about being a father.

Female experience:

She tries hard to make their life the type of one that she dreams of. It doesn’t really work out that way but things are not all that bad either. There is a steady progress that is being made. Being a mother changes her life in radical ways that she could never have imagined before.

If she could only get him to really try to do the things that she wants things would work out perfectly. He seems content to waste his time on things that are unimportant to her and even may try getting out of doing things that she asks of him.