As the relationship progresses the energy dynamics between the two progress as well. He begins to trust his intuition and his heart above other things. Logic and reason are no longer as important as they used to be. She is a goddess and he is in love. There is no one else for him and there never will be. They are made to be together; they are made for each other. She is his goddess. He is content to bask in her radiance, to merely be close to her. He never felt that he would find someone who was so right for him. It’s like a fairytale dream. He is sexually attracted to her and wants to have sex. Her energy makes his entire body shiver. He is obsessed with her.
He is now generating emotions at an unprecedented rate. This is totally new for him and unexplored territory. None of it makes sense, but he plunges ahead anyway. He gets caught up in his emotions and his ability to think rationally and logically becomes impaired. At this point the sparks really fly as they each trigger unexpected emotions within each other.
Her new awareness of her body is strange and she feels timid, shy and uncertain. Compared to the emotional energies that he is generating she feels weak and powerless. The very force of his emotions threatens to overwhelm her. Instead of lifting her up into the spiritual heights, the force of his emotions is plunging her down the steep incline into sensual materialism which is where he wants to go. Recklessly and joyously, she forsakes all spiritual values and lets the energy take her where it will. This is also part of being a goddess. She wants to have sex with him as well.
In Tantric terms they are exchanging male and female energy with each other within the nonphysical planes. They are both starting to have difficulty with the energies that they are exchanging with each other. The nonphysical exchange of energies is threatening to become a physical exchange of sexual energies and neither one of them is truly ready for that at this point. Things are getting out of control and sooner or later self-defeating behaviors will rise to the surface. Trapped and repressed toxic and negative emotions will burst into the open
Traditional Tantric teachings explore this energy dynamic by having Tantric partners sleep in the same bed without touching each other, or being in close proximity to each other so that they can begin to explore the effect that they have upon each other energetically.
Remember that the goal of Tantric practice is mastery of the sexual energies in full awareness and creatively working together as a couple. At this point sexual orgasm energy is not even considered. It is too explosive and dangerous. The development of the soul and its powers requires the use of nonphysical energies, not physical sex. It is the spark of the attraction that is required, not the physical act of sex. The goal is to lift these combined energies up into the spiritual realm of heartfelt love.
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