Anarchistbanjo's World

Six of Pentacles

symbol– He uses her energy to do things that he wants to
do. She gets him to do things for her. They have a child.
Meaning- exploitation

They are both generating high and low level sexual and physical energy at this point. She is able to generate an abundance of high level energy and combines it with his high level sexual energy. They encourage each other in their physical effort to achieve the things in life that are important. This combined physical energy is used to create physically the type of life that she wants for them both.

They have begun the process of creating a family together. The birth of a child brings new joys, responsibilities and sorrows. It is more than either one expected it to be.

The effect of this is that she gains control of the relationship and gets him to do things for her that she wants done. Everything must be done the way that she wants it and all that he says is “Yes dear!”

Even though she is becoming dominant at home he is still able to do the things that he wants to do when he is away from her. He is able to find time for his own interests too. In this way the relationship is a workable one in which each partner is using the other to fulfill their own physical needs.

The relationship does not meet their highest expectations and many compromises must be made but they do learn to love and respect each other in their own ways. They learn to become a family.

Male experience:

He learns to compromise with her and in general is content with the relationship. It becomes comfortable to be in. She demands things of him but he is also able to do many of the things that he wants to do. He learns about being a father.

Female experience:

She tries hard to make their life the type of one that she dreams of. It doesn’t really work out that way but things are not all that bad either. There is a steady progress that is being made. Being a mother changes her life in radical ways that she could never have imagined before.

If she could only get him to really try to do the things that she wants things would work out perfectly. He seems content to waste his time on things that are unimportant to her and even may try getting out of doing things that she asks of him.

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Four of Pentacles

Symbol– He tries to compromise with her. He is eager.
She agrees to compromise but she is reluctant.
Meaning- seduction

He is generating both high and low level physical energy and is using it to enmesh them physically together. There is not much she can do to prevent him from invading into her personal life.

He is not really the type of person she dreamed about bringing home but that person has never arrived. She is forced to begin generating physical energy. This causes her to think about what she is looking for in a sexual relationship. It is time to be realistic. No one is perfect and she must be willing to compromise if she ever wants to be married.

She is not really in love with him but she has no other prospects in her life at this time either. She cautiously agrees to a much more serious relationship with him. Who knows, maybe it will work out after they get to know each other better.

He is overjoyed at her willingness to go steady and date seriously. He is certain that she will fall in love with him in time. He is madly and passionately in love with her. He is not willing to take it slow and easy.

She begins to absorb physical energy from him and begins to direct his physical activities. He is overjoyed at doing things for her. In this respect they are both using each other to get things that they both want.

She rejects many of her earlier fantasies of the perfect life because they obviously would not come true with him. He is too different from her ideal. Still he is alive and he is all that she has so she will do the best that she can with him.

He is surrounded in love and all embracing feminine warmth. There is nothing left in life to be desired. This is it. This is the dawning of a new day.

Male experience:

He continues to push things. He is madly and passionately in love with her and is certain she will return his passion. He is willing to compromise and do things for her to show her how much he loves her.

They are going steady now and it is almost as if they were already engaged. It would be hard for her to back out of the relationship now. He is forced to be content with the way that things are going.

Female experience:

He is not really what she was looking for but she may never find whom she is looking for. He is a nice person and maybe things could work out between them if she gives it a chance. Almost reluctantly she commits herself to a relationship with him.

She knows that she has already compromised her dream life and she is not willing to compromise any more than she has to. He may not fulfill certain expectations but he had better fulfill other expectations. She expects him to give her the type of life that she wants.

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