Anarchistbanjo's World

Seven of Pentacles

Symbol-She discovers him in bed with another woman.
Meaning- loss of innocence

As a couple they combine their energy of love and light and pour it out into the entire world. They proclaim their combined desires and wills throughout the entire Spirit planes. This is a mingling of bitter-sweet as each shares the pains and sorrows of the other.
She is now taking his lower level sexual and physical energy and using it to create the physical reality that she wants out of life. It soon is apparent that the relationship has serious problems.

They are both very different persons and want very different things out of life. He resists doing what she wants and she resists doing what he wants. The relationship turns into a massive power struggle that can have no winner.

There are some things that they each consider sacred and they will not part with those cherished dreams. Those dreams are not compatible with each other.

Since they both are freely generating all types of astral energy two separate versions of the future are generated, his and hers. As more and more energy is poured into these potential futures the power struggle becomes more and more intense. Neither one is satisfied with the relationship but neither one wants to leave it.

Ultimately, more suitable partners are drawn into their lives by the very intensity of their desires and the accumulation of energy within each created astral future. Affairs and separation are the result. At the very least they know they must separate and it is devastating for both of them.

He plunges into an abyss trying to find another source of female energy. At the same time he is trying to deal with the hostile energy she is sending toward him. She has been his only source of female sexual and physical energy, but now it is hostile energy and he has real difficulty trying to neutralize it. He is not sexually attracted to her any more.

He is trying to escape from her reality completely but is still dependent upon her for sexual and physical energy. There is probably a temporary separation.

She is sucked into an uncontrollable vortex and lost in terror and despair. She has been used. She gave the relationship everything she had and he deserted her. He is not interested in her any more.

It is only after she loses him she realizes how much he really means to her. It is a terrible thing not to be able to live with someone or to live without them. In all this the family suffers if they have children together.

Male experience:

The relationship is not working out and he is not at all satisfied. He is ready to look for someone outside the relationship to fulfill his needs. A separation is inevitable and brings a feeling of intense relief. It may be temporary or permanent. They need to think about the children.

Female experience:

She doesn’t realize how much she loves him until it is too late and he is gone. There is nothing but a huge gaping wound in her life where he once had been. She knows they were not good for each other but he was all she ever had. Having something is better than the loneliness and emptiness she is now experiencing. They need to think about the children.